Was anyone's AP the spouse of a good friend?

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Registered: 06-17-2009
Was anyone's AP the spouse of a good friend?
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Sun, 01-30-2011 - 8:45pm

Were any of your APs married to a friend of yours?

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Sun, 01-30-2011 - 9:24pm
I don't have a similar experience but I do know that friendships naturally fade.

Don't ever get the urge to tell her but don't be shocked if he eventually does.
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Sun, 01-30-2011 - 9:35pm

I would never tell her...it would only lead to more hurt for her and I've caused enough already.

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Sun, 01-30-2011 - 9:44pm
Do any if these mutual friends know or suspect anything?
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Sun, 01-30-2011 - 11:15pm

My best friend knows (also a

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Mon, 01-31-2011 - 9:34pm
How much do you trust her?

Never share your secrets with anyone that knows the spouse. Ever. Too late now but I hope shes a better friend to you than the AP's wife.