Watch Him Squirm

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Registered: 07-11-2004
Watch Him Squirm
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Fri, 07-16-2004 - 10:39pm
I had to tell ya'll what happened the other night when I had to work with MM and be around his wife. This is priceless what happened.

She has a guy friend she wants me to meet and she brought him last night to the church we were taping at and introduced him to me right in front of MM! It was priceless. We went into my editing room and talked, laughed etc. He was a nice guy and I would go out with him if he asked. About 10 min. later MM came into my editing room prancing around telling me what a wimp this guy was. I told him I thought he was nice. It was funny to watch MM squirm. He knows I will move on and that's what is killing him and why he won't say he is staying with his wife. I think it's funny to watch the pressure on him for a while. He still is yet to tell me his decision on the ulimatum either me or W. Does he honestly think that I am not moving on? Oh well. It was good to watch him squirm over the other guy getting introduced to me!

carla



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Registered: 03-25-2003
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 8:40pm

So, for what constuctive purpose for your life does watching MM squirm serve you?


You already know he isn't leaving wife. He prefers lying to you to keep the status quo. Or at least he doesn't have the requisite backbone to end his marriage and live an above board life with you. So he bad-mouths the single guy you find interesting and available.


SO why are you even waiting on MM? More submission to controlling guilt and inuendo?


Isn't YOUR life really your concern? If so, since you found the other SINGLE man somewhat attractive, why not CALL HIM UP for a date?


Who knows. Maybe this SINGLE man is really what you want from life: someone available for long talks, long walks and romance OUT IN THE OPEN.......


It's your life and YOU'RE single.......


Right?


You deserve respect and a full time relationship.


Not crumbs from a fence-sitter........


jmo,


cl-nre

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Registered: 07-11-2004
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 5:39pm
Dear Cl-nre,

Yes...I have thought about contacting the single guy and asking him out. The NC with MM except when we must work together has been hard but worth it. In fact, I must work with him tonight, ugh. I am stonger and it has been two weeks since I told him to choose.

Thanks cl-nre!!

Carla

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 07-20-2004 - 8:13pm

So Carla, did the single guy agree to a date?


just wondering,


cl-nre

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Registered: 07-11-2004
Thu, 07-22-2004 - 12:10am
Well, we have mutual friends and I kind of put the word out that I was interested. I feel kind of funny about just calling him up and asking him out. I may stop by and see him because he details cars and it would be casual. I meet this guy on Eharmony about a year ago and we emailed for a while and then he stopped back in Decemeber. He started emailing me about 2 months ago again and we are talking about finally meeting.

I'll keep you posted!


Carla