Way to go Crystal!!!!!!!

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Way to go Crystal!!!!!!!
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Sat, 05-03-2003 - 3:07pm
I simply had to tell you when I read that you had cuddled with your H this morning, I felt like running around my house dancing!

I need you to make me a promise. When and if that itch comes again to make ANY sort of contact with the OMM, will you please either come here and post first or at least email me if you want to keep it off the board. Come hell or high water, I want to see you get through this! You keep putting forth the effort with your DH and you may just be surprised at what happens.

Love ya girl.

GT

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Sat, 05-03-2003 - 3:20pm
You're funny!

Yes, it was nice to feel we're getting closer. I have noticed he's been trying a lot more since OM and I have been broken up and I wonder if thats because he's feeling more from me. Without being totally preocuppied with OM maybe I'm more open to him.

As far as OM, I will be coming to you if I feel the urge again. If I didn't have this trip coming up, then I think it would be a lot harder for me, but I'm so excited about going away - its really helped.

Are you going to miss me?

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Sun, 05-04-2003 - 1:30pm
Yes I am going to miss you. :) But reality is that you'll be back soon. Crystal, think about this while you are gone. In order to be loved, you need to give it. So yes, I firmly believe that the positive responses you are getting from your DH is a direct result of no contact with the OM (YEA!!!!) and a door that has opened to your heart. You deserve to be loved in the way you want to be loved. So give it darlin. That's all you need to do.

Hugs to you and have a very enjoyable and safe trip. Be sure to let us know when you get back!

GT