We are co-workers - it really hurts

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Registered: 06-12-2009
We are co-workers - it really hurts
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Fri, 06-04-2010 - 5:58pm

I posted on another board to get some help some other feelings, but thought I would post on this one as well -- for different advice/support.


I am 40, single and have never had an affair -- until a year ago when I began an affair with a co-worker.

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Fri, 06-04-2010 - 8:12pm

Dear Alohagirl,


I have walked in your shoes and know exactly how you are struggling with this. I am also single and decided to stay at my job for the same reasons you have. Besides I already had in 10 years and I wasn't going to throw that away over some stupid mistake I made falling for the boss. Yeah, I know, how cliche'. Our A lasted for 4.5 years with my ending it twice and him once. I totally understand the sexual attraction and chemistry as it took me a long time to get past that part of it before I make my ending stick.

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 06-12-2009
Sat, 06-05-2010 - 12:57pm

Hi Iddy,


I cannot tell you how much I needed to read your post.