We miss you too WGO!

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Registered: 10-22-2012
We miss you too WGO!
Fri, 11-02-2012 - 6:09am

Hi WGO! It's so great to hear from you, I have been thinking about you so much lately and was considering sending my a PM, not something I do very much of, as I was wondering whether you were OK. I'm so happy to hear that your job is going well, and that you are feeling more like the usual you, but I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with the absence of xAP's physical presence. I'm no expert sweetie, and the vets will be along soon with some good advice, but I am wondering whether it's all just part of the learning curve my love, part of the journey that we all have to go through, we have to work our way through each stage of the process, adjust to it and move forward. Up to when you left your last job WGO, you still would see xAP at work sometimes, I'm guessing you still were getting work related e-mails which had his name on them, so in some small way he still existed in your life, you would be exposed to him, even though you were well and truly over him WGO, and you know you were honey, you were still subjected to his presence now and then. Now that you've moved jobs, xAP is not in your life in any physical way whatsoever, and so you have to adjust to that, accept it and let it go. I know it's hard sweetie, it's all hard, but you'll get through it, just the same as you got through the rest of it. You are a strong, capable, warm, loving, funny, intelligent, fantastic woman my love, and we are all here for you, to help you over this hurdle.

Big hugs and lots of love, Soglad x o x