Well, i think he's getting it...........

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Registered: 03-05-2008
Well, i think he's getting it...........
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Wed, 09-09-2009 - 1:07pm

Good Afternoon everyone,


Just jumping on after a crazy few days........


We'll I think he is getting it.....an opportunity did arise today and he hinted slightly that we spend "time together"pursue. He even made plans and blew off a work engagementthat we could have possibly done together.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 2:36pm

Hi Lori,


I was hoping someone who has LC at work would answer but it looks like we don't have a lot of people on today.


Hats off to you or anyone who has to deal with xAP at work.


I saw something in one of your old posts that I just wanted to remind you of and I hope it helps.


You said you are hanging in there for you job. Since it seems like something very important. I encourage you to focus on it.


Don't give him the satisfaction of causing you to

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 06-19-2009
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 2:45pm

Izzy,


i am RIGHT THERE WITH YOU!


i am feeling everything you are feeling. my XAP is also "getting" it and leaving me totally alone right now. The whole work day goes by and we have no contact even tho we sit 30 feet away from each other. It is hell for me even tho it's what i asked for. I understand every ounce of pain you are feeling and i cannot help myself to hold back the tears, i just can't, and it's one of those days where i am doubting what am i doing to myself by askin for NC.


Hang in there, it hurts but i have heard that it gets better.


Andrea

Sunshine


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Sunshine

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 4:08pm
Hi Izzy,

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2009
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 4:31pm

The first few days can be torture.

 

              &n

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 2:30pm

il:


we're here. we're always here. sometimes you have to wait, but we'll always be back.


he's put on his coat and left. he's always had his coat on. always.

CL-Lovely Starr

"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2008
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 10:53pm

E1,


Thank you so much for your help.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2008
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 11:05pm

W4ts,


I know what you mean when you say you doubt yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2008
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 11:10pm

Hi dancer,


Thanks for your post.........you are right I have to something for

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2008
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 11:20pm

lovely,


Thanks once again for posting!!