well - it happened

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Registered: 10-13-2004
well - it happened
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Mon, 01-31-2005 - 12:15pm
If any of you read my posts a few days ago then you will understand where this is coming from. I was trying to find the strength to let go of my mm. He has been very adamant and wanting us to work out even with a child on the way. I asked myself on how could I still be talking to this man when his wife is pregnant. Well, I have found the strength to walk away from him now. I found out over the weekend that I am pregnant. I am very excited and this is what I have wanted for months. We started trying when XMM and I ended things. I want to be the best mommy and wife I can be for my family. I know for sure the last thing I want is to raise 6 kids(he will have four). I love kids but 6? I haven't told XMM bc I know he will break down but I need to tell him soon so he can get over the idea that we can be together one day. He honestly in his heart thinks we could be together. I just can't see it.
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 4:16pm

Mere! Congratulations! What a wonderful little incentive to putting your A fully behind you and jumping back into your life -- with both tiny feet.

I'm sorry that you have to break the news to xMM. After four months of NC, it stinks to start that all over again. At least your heart and mind are in the right place to make it stick.

Good luck! And congrats, congrats, congrats!

Shel

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 8:09pm

Mere

CONGRATULATIONS on the great news of your expacting your Baby, on on getting your ducks in a row.

Time to take care of the FAMILY, XMM has to take care of his own busness and respect your right and responsibility to do the same for yours.

The very BEST OF LUCK to you and your family in days to come.

Free

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Registered: 01-04-2005
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 8:20pm
Congratulations and all the best to you!