What am I going through now?

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Registered: 04-01-2010
What am I going through now?
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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:03pm

I feel so incredibly lost and sad. I have no motivation to do anything today. What has happened?

Saturday I was so engaged in my RL and had a fantastic day and was so thankful I pulled my head out of my a$$ and was no longer feeling any real

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.

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Community Leader
Registered: 06-08-2010
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:26pm

Alwayst2,

You have always encouraged me with my posts, so here is my shot at giving you encouragement today! :)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2010
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:30pm

Always...hugs to you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:48pm

Honey, you are just having a bad day...it happens. Having that dream didn't help any either. My dreams

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2010
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:55pm

(((Hearts and Cait)))

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2009
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:59pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2010
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 1:04pm

Cross posted with Iddy and Alice. Thanks to you very special people. Thanks for your patience, Iddy, and reminding me that I need to find mine. It's just a lousy Monday. Poo.

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2007
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 1:20pm

MOndays are tough for me too. The house is quiet. It's upside down. The remnants of the weekend are left for me to sort out and put away. And I have work here on my desk that I have already given up on today. And I haven't showered...feeling better??

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2010
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 5:28pm

(((always))))

If you need anyone to tell you how sexy you look in your underwares....

hahahahhaha

I get this though! :) We have to redirect all the needs we did have met...ELSEWHERE...

and the "sexxy in my panties" need....just isnt one you can get at the grocery store.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 6:03pm
Hi alwayst2,

I have feelings of being lost and sad too, some days I am ok and other days it's not so good. Time and facing up to my issues is proofing that I am not having a lot of sad and lost days in a row. It's an improvement and one you will see as well as time goes on. I think when we have removed ourselves from toxic situations we can be at a loss because our coping skills are non existent, this was the case for me and the feeling was like being without an anchor. It's taking a lot of work to not go back on my old ways as I am learning new coping skills. I have been using this saying that was said to me on a different matter "you did it yesterday, you can do it today" so with my different fears I repeat it daily:) For me personally, I don't go back on the "good times" they are non excisent now. Those times were all bases on deceit and there is nothing to miss, those times came at a great cost to me. I am with you on the untangling and then some, but it's ok we don't have a time limit to resolve our issues we have the gift of time without xap to use as an excuse to hold us back.

I hope the rest of the day had you in better spirits :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2006
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 7:27pm
Hugs always,
I wish I could help. Just know you are not alone.
I had a rough day - the morning blues did not dissipate. I did a real stupid thing too that ripped the tender scab by cyberstalking. Today it was all over the internet that he got a great big new job. Accolades everywhere. Made me feel worse. I have to commit to myself that I won't do that again...plus a very handsome picture. Let's remember the teeny weeny :-).
My point is that we can be our own worse enemies. Why can't we be good to ourselves after this pain? Why can't we be like men? We can. We just have to be disciplined in our thoughts and actions. Not easy. But we can lean on our cyber friends for that. Iddy asked you....do you have a T? I do and it so helps. I spoke to my BF tonite. She knew I was off...I hate the secrets.
Always, you are going to be fine. So am I and everyone else. You've helped me. You are paying it forward and your experience will help others to learn and grow.
Please be patient sleep well. Thank you for helping me and as I said to cait....the worst is over!

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