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What are your thoughts?
| Wed, 06-23-2004 - 5:45am |
XMM had told me several times during our "thing" that he knew my husband loved me and that he knew we have built a life together, after being married 20+ years. What are your thoughts on why he would say this, while he was also telling me that he loved me, couldn't NOT have me in his life and did everything but beg me on bended knee to not leave our realtionship. I don't get it.
My thoughts are that men like this (he) are very insecure, maybe he was wanting me to never leave my husband for fear that eventually another man may have me, other than him. He always made his self clear to me that he was not leaving his marriage for the sake of his youngest child. (Same ol story).
Thanks in advance for your replys.
Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!
TCOM

? for you: At what point are you REALLY going to make this MM your EX-MM and stop wondering why he said things to screw up your head?
He said what he said at that time. It's a NEW DAY, the affair is OVER and you have your life GOING FORWARD.
Whatever xMM's motivations for saying what he said in the past have NO PLACE in your life going forward.....
jmmo,
cl-nre
P.S. Edited to add this last thought: Please re-read my last post to you June 21........keep moving forward, not turning over the fuzz in your navel.
Edited 6/23/2004 9:56 am ET ET by cl-noregretsever
Yesterday and today have just been trying. Other things in life are getting to me. I had a friend pass away a couple days ago and I think maybe my emotions are just crazy. I DO want to get past this affair and I will. I know I will.
Thanks for being there for me.
TCOM
You're well on your way to being "over" your affair, and your friend's passing surely affected your emotions. Losing a friend to death cuts deep.
My sincere condolence to you at this time of your loss. Cherish the good memories and don't forget to get out the pictures and laugh and cry..... your friend will be sorely missed.
cl-nre
Sorry about your friend, make sure your getting enough rest it is hard to control the emotions when your warn out.
As to XMM motivations, I think a lot of theses guys want to be able to milk the Cow freely but to not want to buy it, (not calling you a cow by the way).
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