What do I do?

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Registered: 03-03-2005
What do I do?
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Thu, 03-03-2005 - 4:10pm
I am very confused. I am in a relationship, however about 6 months ago, I met someone who totally made me feel less inhibitated. I could talk to him about everything and anything. We really clicked and got along well, we met on several occasions if you know what I mean. Well a few weeks ago he told me that there was someone he was thinking about getting serious with and that we probably won't be able to do things like we used to and that he still wanted to be friends with me, however, I messed up somewhere because I find myself sorta missing him, and talking to him. I know I just need to let it go because I have someone at home who is supposed to be that for me but I dont know if he is. I guess I just need some advice on how to get over this other guy who halped make me feel whole again...
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Registered: 07-08-2003
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 5:53pm

Listen, Lonelybabygurl, there are red flags shooting up all over your post!!!! You didn't elaborate on what kind of relationship you were in before you met Mr. Makes You Feel Complete. If it's not a marriage, thank goodness and move on!!! It's very difficult to get over someone who made you feel whole. Honey, use this as an opportunity to get to know yourself and this relationship you're in. Think about WHY this person made you feel whole when the other person you were with didn't. Think about the differences and the feelings each brought up for you.

I think you'd be doing yourself (and him) a real disservice to get any further involved with the existing relationship person, that's for sure. Try and get some answers to these questions before you find yourself searching for another "distraction." JMHO. Love, Mo.

mo 7-18-10

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 9:53pm
Ditto