What do I make of this?
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What do I make of this?
| Wed, 01-28-2004 - 7:32pm |
OK, I know I said I find this whole affair thing boring already, but I still feel a bit jazzed when I hear from MM. So, he emails me about once a day now, telling me what is going on with some important work decisions (we don't work together, but he has always confided in me about work stuff, and he signs his emails "I miss you" and calls me "baby" like he always has. What do you make of that? Do you think he still is "in" this thing?

It sounds to me like he's still trying to pull your strings.
Now the question becomes, "are you?"
I wish I could tell you what to do & how to not want this mess anymore, but you're going to have to find your own way.
I know you will -- the desire is there but the strength of will isn't yet. Good luck. I did the weaning thing. It took me about 6 mos. to be ready to walk away & never turn back.
I've never regretted it for a minute and now, a year free of the A, I am the happiest I've ever been in my life.
I hope you find your strength & happiness soon. It's not easy, but you'll find your own path.
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ps...all the stuff you said about weaning...a resounding YES! that's what it exactly leads to!!!