What to do when he calls??
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| Tue, 10-19-2004 - 7:47am |
I want to meet him tomorrow and get the phone and be done with this but not sure if I have the strength. I want to be all dressed up for business and make him realize what he had lost...what he didn't have the strength to keep. But I am afraid seeing him will make me weak and I won't walk away!! He said that song by andy griggs She thinks she needs him was us...what a line of bull huh...he doesn't need me he doesn't even call. But I know what he will say if I am upset about that "why everytime I don't call you question us??" Answers to all this crap he feeds me?? This is his 2nd affair...and I have a feeling not his last. It's a shame another women will be hurt like this again...and his wife why would she put up with this?? She knows about both affairs??

Stay strong! It sounds like you already know what you have to do. It also sounds like you have learned so much from these two relationships that the next time you meet someone you will be so much smarter!
<<> Don't even think about what he thinks. Tell yourself that he will miss you (deep down he does, but guys have a different way of dealing with that). Once you tell yourself he will indeed miss you, then move onin your thought process. Now it's going to be all about you. It doesn't matter what he thinks!!! What matters is what you think and what you can do all on your own. The truth is that you DON'tT need a man to do this! The funny thing is that your dream guy will come along when you least expect it and when you aren't looking for it. You will have gotten to the place where you are comfortable with who you are and with your life the way it is -- that's the point when you will find happiness (and the dream guy who will fall into your lap :-)
My XMM called me last week and I had to make a list for myself of reminders. It was a great mental exercise for me. Either go back and read my list or start your own :-)
Good luck--you are definitely on the right track!
Meg
God give me strength to move on and find myself!!
hugs!