What extreme lengths have you gone to...

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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 2:28pm
What extreme lengths have you gone to, to be with with your

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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 2:40pm

Okay, I'm starting this thing!


When my xOM and his girlfriend were still together, I actually went off with them together just for the day.

sc

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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 3:52pm

Well, ya knew I was gonna post :-)

xOM would email me at 7:30am (when he got into work) every day to say Good Morning. I would then call him as soon as my H left for work (around 8am). We would talk during the half hour commute I had into the office. We would meet for lunch every day and then coffee in the afternoon. Then we would usually meet for drinks after work, then talk on my half hour communte home.

xOM didn't have a computer at home, so he would go into work on the weekends and sometimes late at night so he could email me.

Once, I text messaged him because I was going out w/ some friends and wanted him to meet up w/me. He called me back and asked what I would tell my friends - I told him I would just say he was a guy I knew from work, but at least we would get to spend some time together.

Here's the kicker...my H was planning to go out of town for business. This was going to be xOM & my 'first time' together. he was making plans for us to stay at a nice hotel and everything. Well, we ended up breaking up a few weeks before (but then got back together). A few days before the trip, H asked me to go w/ him. I asked xOM what he wanted me to do - he said I should go - it was the right thing to do and I should be w/ my H. I didn't. I told H I couldn't go because of work. Mind you - things w/ xOM and I were not going well at this point. The sad part is...that night did end up being our first time!

Diva

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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 5:20pm

I love you to death Diva!


I knew you wouldn't let me down.

sc

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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 6:05pm
One summer weekend the office decided to go to stock car races, including spouses, kids.
I remember going shopping to pick out the perfect outfit because I knew I was gonna see the wife. It just so happen the way we sat I could feel mm legs in my back and they werent there on accident, the thrill of having not only his legs touching my back but to have his wife and my husband and the whole office around made more thrilling!! But the part that I couldnt believe is when we would pick cars we wanted to win the race he always went with the car I picked so that we could high five each other if they would win.Now how naughty is that!!! I am so lucky that my husband was so into the races cause it was evident that we were flirting, I think wifey caught on cause she kept saying she was bored and wanted to go home, and his reply to her was go ahead I catch a ride from some one else here. She never did leave.
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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 6:48pm

UHG -

I ADORE you! Please tell me you live in the southwest - we need to get together for lunch :-)

This was a great idea for a thread! Looking forward to seeing how crazy *others* are (besides us :-))!

Diva

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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 10:27pm

I am ashamed to admit this, but a few days after we first admitted we had feelings for each other, we were scheduled to chaperone a teen lock-in (it was a community event). Instead, he pulled me into a dark room and we kissed for the first time...and ended up going in there every chance we got. At one point, we were on the gym floor with all the kids with their sleeping bags and blankets, and we shared a blanket and held hands underneath the blanket. One of the kids asked if we were married...I got scared because we are well known because of our jobs, and I was afraid she would go home and talk about it. We stayed awake the whole night talking, and when I got ready to go home, as rough as I looked, he told me I was absolutely beautiful.

That's the warm-fuzzy version. The reality version: we snuck around, I went home and lied to my husband about the evening. I worried about harming a child by having her notice our relationship. So I regret it, yes, along with the other crazy things we did: kissing in the male anchor dressing room and almost getting caught when one of the producers came in to talk to him. There is a makeup area and a separate toilet area. He shoved me in the toilet area and I had to stand against the wall and try not to make any noise. The producer was just inches away. Kind of ironic...I guess the toilet was a fitting place, huh?

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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 11:53pm
Well I think I would be voted as the craziest here. What length you ask.. well the first time i had OM over, he was supposed to be just a friend i knew, and my H was out of town. my kids and mother in law were in the house in their respective rooms. OM asked to go to the washroom, which is attached to my bedroom. I showed him the way and then waited for him to get out and then pulled him towards me and we kissed. It was the most spontaneous thing for the moment. We just couldnt stop , finally we had to pull away and go into the living room, rather sheepishly, since we acted like complete teenagers, considering i had two teenagers down the corridor in their room.
UHG, .. I cannot believe how many risks I have taken in the name of this OM. I for one am on the verge of the break up, with NC for the past 5 days with him. I hope I can keep it up, I sometimes just feel like texting him but so far have been really strong. wish me luck
Trish
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Sat, 12-11-2004 - 12:32am

Thanks Diva, you already know I adore you too!


Man, I wish I did live close to you, lunch would be great!

sc

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Registered: 09-20-2004
Sat, 12-11-2004 - 12:40am

I know Trish!


We've all done some pretty crazy things just to be with him.

sc

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Sat, 12-11-2004 - 1:09am

Okay, another goofy story!

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