What got me thru NC!! READ

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Registered: 01-18-2010
What got me thru NC!! READ
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Sat, 01-23-2010 - 8:25am

I can not take credit for writing this, I can not even remember who wrote it. All I know is that I kept it on my phone. And I read it daily those first couple of weeks. But for these few but powerful sentences, I do not know if I would still be on this journey and headed in the right direction. Copy n paste it, print it out and put it on your mirror, use it as your screen saver (if you can :)). Do whatever you need to, that works for you. I have it memorized and at one point I remember saying it aloud to myself as I did the laundry....as I said whatever works for you.

"To those who are struggling with NC and/or ending the A: you can do it. YOU are worth it. YOU deserve someone who will put you first. Love YOU and only YOU. Someone who would move heaven and earth before they would be willing to see in you in this kind of pain.
By breaking NC you say you are not worth those things. Stop focusing on XAP and focus on YOU. Ever time YOU choose to not contact XAP YOU choose to say I AM WORTH MORE THAN THAT AND I DESERVE BETTER. Remember YOU are important."

If you wrote this or knows who did, let me know, I owe em hugs, many thanks and a big box of Clarity's chocolates (which I will learn how to send).

Hope everyone has a good day....trying to send out postive thoughts and affirmations. I got more of these if anyone needs a little more or even something a little different, let me know.

Luvin XO

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 01-17-2010
Sat, 01-23-2010 - 8:39am

Very powerful and motivating indeed Luvin.

myShadow (cuz surely this isn't the real me)

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Sat, 01-23-2010 - 6:45pm
I like that. It's simple and to the point.
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Sun, 01-24-2010 - 5:12am
COPY... PASTE ... thank you , luvinmeforever!!! VERY GOOD!!
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Sun, 01-24-2010 - 8:34am

Mornin' Luvin :)


There's an Affirmation Thread in the Healing Library.