Is that what I was doing?

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Registered: 10-25-2009
Is that what I was doing?
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Tue, 12-22-2009 - 2:06pm

MM contacted me last night.

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 2:14pm
This is him telling you that he still wants your "goods" but doesn't want to commit or date you.
Onward and upward.
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Registered: 10-20-2009
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 2:29pm

Well, kmg6...First, if he was never able to contact you, you would not have had that conversation....That was your first choice...Now you have another choice..you can accept the bull he is throwing at you....or you can change your thinking, "it's all about me" get on your side of the yellow line...and

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
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Registered: 11-10-2009
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 2:34pm

Unfortunately energy is right. He wants to keep you for fun and nothing more.


You are not coming between him and his kids. That is his area and he controls that. This is his way of trying to make you the bad guy so you will rush in to make it better so he doesn't get mad or anything. Totally wrong on his part. He should just be honest with you and say hey, I don't want this anymore I want to be with my sons. That would be the upfront thing to do. Why would that happen in an A?!?! Crazy thought!


Besides you didn't bail on him...you moved on with life. Keep moving! No more phone calls, emails, texts...let him fix his own problems instead of trying to blame you in some way so he doesn't have to deal with them honey.


You are in control not him. Shut his power down! Kill that switch and be in control. No more blaming you for his shortcomings. It is his life and you are not controlling it.


Take care


Hope

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Registered: 01-08-2007
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 4:36pm
You are absolutely NOT
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Registered: 08-28-2004
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 9:57pm

kmg6,


He is being such a douchebag right now.