Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
He told me we would be together in 6 years, when his daughter is 18, he just wanted to string me along (Um nobody knows what they are going to do in 6 years)
I knew I had to end this madness but I didn't want to be the bad guy, so I pressured him to leave his wife and be with me. I knew he would turn me down and then I could breakup with him and I would not have any guilt,or hurt his pride. I was so worried about his feelings. what I didnt expect is that time after time of this and his fear of being found out he finally ended it and it backfired on me and now I was the rejected one and believe me he did not care about my feelings at all. What he doesn't know is that I would not have left my family for him.
He always said how fat he was, I would tell him no you are not , you are beautiful and perfect. He is not, he really is fat, I'm just not superficial. He is my husband's sister's husband, my bro in law. I have known him about 12 years, never during that time was I attracted to him until he caught me in a weak moment and in hindsight had been working on me for awhile. I of course told him I have always loved him.
I told him I did not love my husband, my addiction to him had me convinced I did not, it was the only way I could rationalize what I was doing. I do love my husband more than anything in the world. I do not love this man or this addiction. I don't even care about him only just as a human being. I thought he was my soulmate, that is how powerful this crap is.
I told him he was brilliant, he is not, he is an overgrown child, very immature and inarticulate, what he is though is very charming and very smooth, the best I have ever seen at it.
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Oh Jenimall,
Can I so relate to how you feel about men!!!
I think thats what I have done all my life settled I think I have put the bar so low lol that that is why I am so UNHAPPY.
Em1 - Great post! The A really is all about lies, but for a long time, I think I actually believed a lot of my own lies too.
Hi All,
I know it took me a while to post back. Thanks to all who answered back. I enjoyed reading all of them. Oh the lies…yikes…here it goes:
WHAT xAP SAID
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
He told me we would be together in 6 years, when his daughter is 18, he just wanted to string me along (Um nobody knows what they are going to do in 6 years)
I knew I had to end this madness but I didn't want to be the bad guy, so I pressured him to leave his wife and be with me. I knew he would turn me down and then I could breakup with him and I would not have any guilt,or hurt his pride. I was so worried about his feelings. what I didnt expect is that time after time of this and his fear of being found out he finally ended it and it backfired on me and now I was the rejected one and believe me he did not care about my feelings at all. What he doesn't know is that I would not have left my family for him.
He always said how fat he was, I would tell him no you are not , you are beautiful and perfect. He is not, he really is fat, I'm just not superficial. He is my husband's sister's husband, my bro in law. I have known him about 12 years, never during that time was I attracted to him until he caught me in a weak moment and in hindsight had been working on me for awhile. I of course told him I have always loved him.
I told him I did not love my husband, my addiction to him had me convinced I did not, it was the only way I could rationalize what I was doing. I do love my husband more than anything in the world. I do not love this man or this addiction. I don't even care about him only just as a human being. I thought he was my soulmate, that is how powerful this crap is.
I told him he was brilliant, he is not, he is an overgrown child, very immature and inarticulate, what he is though is very charming and very smooth, the best I have ever seen at it.
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