What "Lies" Ahead?

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Registered: 08-18-2008
What "Lies" Ahead?
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Thu, 10-29-2009 - 4:38pm

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 08-31-2008
Fri, 10-30-2009 - 7:01pm

Oh Jenimall,


Can I so relate to how you feel about men!!!

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Registered: 11-14-2008
Sat, 10-31-2009 - 6:28pm

I think thats what I have done all my life settled I think I have put the bar so low lol that that is why I am so UNHAPPY.

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Registered: 10-04-2009
Sun, 11-01-2009 - 10:28pm

Em1 - Great post! The A really is all about lies, but for a long time, I think I actually believed a lot of my own lies too.

NC since October 2, 2009.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 5:57pm

Hi All,


I know it took me a while to post back. Thanks to all who answered back. I enjoyed reading all of them. Oh the lies…yikes…here it goes:







WHAT xAP SAID


Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 09-29-2009
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 9:55pm
E1 that was awesome

He told me we would be together in 6 years, when his daughter is 18, he just wanted to string me along (Um nobody knows what they are going to do in 6 years)

I knew I had to end this madness but I didn't want to be the bad guy, so I pressured him to leave his wife and be with me. I knew he would turn me down and then I could breakup with him and I would not have any guilt,or hurt his pride. I was so worried about his feelings. what I didnt expect is that time after time of this and his fear of being found out he finally ended it and it backfired on me and now I was the rejected one and believe me he did not care about my feelings at all. What he doesn't know is that I would not have left my family for him.

He always said how fat he was, I would tell him no you are not , you are beautiful and perfect. He is not, he really is fat, I'm just not superficial. He is my husband's sister's husband, my bro in law. I have known him about 12 years, never during that time was I attracted to him until he caught me in a weak moment and in hindsight had been working on me for awhile. I of course told him I have always loved him.

I told him I did not love my husband, my addiction to him had me convinced I did not, it was the only way I could rationalize what I was doing. I do love my husband more than anything in the world. I do not love this man or this addiction. I don't even care about him only just as a human being. I thought he was my soulmate, that is how powerful this crap is.

I told him he was brilliant, he is not, he is an overgrown child, very immature and inarticulate, what he is though is very charming and very smooth, the best I have ever seen at it.

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