What should I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2005
What should I do?
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Tue, 03-15-2005 - 5:35pm
My situation/question is this:
Ok, I had feelings for this coworker and I think he may have started to have feelings for me too. Nothing ever happened between us, no "i think I like you" NOTHING. Because I'm codependent, i think I was spinning out of control in terms of obessing, coming here etc. The feelings were honestly driving me insane. Well, that was about a week ago. I think now I'm starting to get back to reality. Reading these posts definatly opened my eyes. No longer is an A something i'm interested in with this man.
For about a week, this man has been either avoiding me, or just saying hi. Previous to this week, we chatted and had nice conversation. I guess I thought we were past the just saying hi in the morning. I thought this could be someone that I could have fun discussions with. He's stopped talking to me. Does anyone have a clue as to why a man would do this? What should I do to make everything comfortable again, if anything? Help me out PLEASE. Like I said, thanks to everyone who's ever posted. This board has changed my life!!! Please shed some light on this if possible.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 03-15-2005 - 7:52pm

ove2bconfused2005

What you should do is NOTHING just leave it alone.

There could be any number of reasons he has backed off, such as an interest in a young woman of his age to your boss telling him no hanky panky on company time or property for legal reasons.

Maybe he just has to much character to want to want to mess with a married woman.

What ever the case do see this as an opportunity to walk away from him and back into your own MARRIAGE were you belong.

Free

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2004
Tue, 03-15-2005 - 10:38pm

love2,

pls , stay away from the co-worker, do not have an affair at work, i beg u pls do not
i think he is doing u a favor, dont entertain him anymore

run the other way pls, i beg of u, this are strong words from me but pls, i u see my old post, the pain is too much

i hope u can resist, be strong,
max