What should I say to my H about EAS?

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What should I say to my H about EAS?
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Tue, 02-01-2011 - 8:08pm

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Thu, 02-03-2011 - 12:10pm
Have we ever talked about the depth of my feelings or the details of what was happening? No. Does he understand that I've struggled with our marriage at times and sought validation and attention from someone else? Yes. Does he know that this time it really is over and that I'm 100% commited to sorting myself out and making our marriage work. I hope so.

katniss, just for these 3 reasons, if I were you, I would not give my DH access to this website with my username and password nor

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Thu, 02-03-2011 - 12:15pm

One more thing :

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Thu, 02-03-2011 - 7:29pm

Thanks Garfy (and everyone else who offered such helpful advice),

I've taken a little bit from almost everyone's suggestions and found a way forward that works for me. H and I had a long talk last night where I acknowledged for the first time that I had been unfaithful and told him how truly sorry I am for the hurt that I've caused.

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