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what a way to end
| Sun, 03-21-2010 - 1:15pm |
So this is my story, just another one to add to the board.
| Sun, 03-21-2010 - 1:15pm |
So this is my story, just another one to add to the board.
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Sorry you're hurting TTL. I'm curious how him sending you photos could possibily be your fault??? I mean, he gets busted and can't even own up to it?? Sounds like an immature, insecure creep to me.
Be glad it's done. He was never going to be faithful to you. We are ALL cheaters in an A. Seriously, how could you ever expect your AP to be "faithful" to you. Say that out loud. Doesn't it sound absurd??
You have taken the biggest first steps by eliminating him from your phone, email, etc. Keep up the NC. Sounds like his ego will drive him to go fishing for you at some point. You did good in thwarting those attempts!
Welcome to this board. You will find all the support and resources you need to help you through the ending of your A and to help rebuild
Hey and welcome. I know you don't feel like that right now, but actually the way it ended is a sheer blessing in disguise as you see him exactly for who he is and how little all that you thought was special meant to him. It is a perfect reason for you to walk away and keep walking without ever looking back.
We all were once where you are now, it is terrible, terrible pain. After initial 3-4 weeks when it would feel as the world came to an end and never in your life you will be happy again, you will start feeling better. You will survive and will be stronger and better person.
Congratulations on your ending. Stick around for support, people are great here.
XOXO
Gone
Edited 4/28/2010 2:29 pm ET by jilly1983
He's fed up because I was duplicious.
TTL,
Welcome to endings. I hope you have been fervently reading the posts and the threads in the Healing Library.
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~Iddy~
Thanks, Iddy.
Hi Iddy,
I was not going to comment but I just had to when I read your post about AM. You stated that people who were on AM were "sick and twisted".
Running Girl,
After reading this thread, I went to AM to check it out. I will admit that I felt seedy even just looking at the site, but also I was forced to acknowledge that I was gunning for an A just as much as the people on the site - I just went about it in a different way. I didn't 'fall' into an A; I chased it down and lassoed it and saying anything different is just dodging responsibility. I needed to play a game with myself as I was getting into my A that I was not really doing what I was doing. That self-lie was really damaging.
I guess I'm sexist because I felt sympathy and hurt for the women on AM, but not so much for the men. That's really wrong - I mean, the men aren't having As all by themselves. ha.
How do you feel about the site now that you're out of your A?
Best,
Dee
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