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| Tue, 11-24-2009 - 8:50pm |
Hey its me again,
I open my email to find an email from XAP's army buddy. Im not sure what to think about it,which is why Im here.
heres the email:
Hey Deb how are you doing? Sorry things didn't work out between you and (XAP ). I saw him the other day and he's doing alright. So hows the fishing been up there? must have been great up there with the trees turning with the season. I'm trying to find some time to take a trip up to your neck of the woods but we'll see. Drop me a email sometime. Hope you are good.
my 1st reaction was to write something like this.
*XAP didnt realize what he had and he will regret it and hes not

Do it, and you break NC.
Don't respond. My first thought was that your xAP is writing from someone else's email, thinking that you possibly blocked his own email or would ignore him, and this is just desperate fishing attempt and nothing else.
If you ended it with xAP, then you owe nothing to him or his buddies. With your husband being back at home, you have much better things to do in life. Enjoy upcoming holidays and be grateful to still have your family intact.
Hugs,
GbG