Whats Best

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2008
Whats Best
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Tue, 11-24-2009 - 8:50pm

Hey its me again,


I open my email to find an email from XAP's army buddy. Im not sure what to think about it,which is why Im here.


heres the email:


Hey Deb how are you doing? Sorry things didn't work out between you and (XAP ). I saw him the other day and he's doing alright. So hows the fishing been up there? must have been great up there with the trees turning with the season. I'm trying to find some time to take a trip up to your neck of the woods but we'll see. Drop me a email sometime. Hope you are good.


my 1st reaction was to write something like this.


*XAP didnt realize what he had and he will regret it and hes not

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: dm2006
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 10:13pm

Do it, and you break NC.


iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2009
In reply to: dm2006
Wed, 11-25-2009 - 2:52pm

Don't respond. My first thought was that your xAP is writing from someone else's email, thinking that you possibly blocked his own email or would ignore him, and this is just desperate fishing attempt and nothing else.

If you ended it with xAP, then you owe nothing to him or his buddies. With your husband being back at home, you have much better things to do in life. Enjoy upcoming holidays and be grateful to still have your family intact.

Hugs,
GbG

**Bloodied but unbowed**
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2008
In reply to: dm2006
Wed, 11-25-2009 - 6:43pm
Thank you guys for keeping my impulsive control in check. Although I kept in touch with his buddy when they were deployed, a mutual friend connection was made...BUT he is HIS friend 1st then mine and that says it all..NC means not even with his friends.
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