Whats_going_on is our newest Vet!

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Community Leader
Registered: 11-04-2012
Whats_going_on is our newest Vet!
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Mon, 01-07-2013 - 10:45am

Hey WGO!

You've arrived!  Woot woot!!  One year NC...one year affair free.  I hope you are as proud to receive this medal as I am to pin it on you.  You really worked hard for this.

Your participation on this Board has been remarkable...your empathy and support and solid advice, I am sure, helped many along their journey.  However, your lack of adherence to our 'bevy alert' has fallen short at times, and I've had to wipe down my computer on more than one occasion...because your humor always shined through, even when you were struggling...you'll want to work on that.Laughing

WTG WGO!  Love you, girl.

((hugs))

Clarity

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Registered: 06-24-2011
Mon, 01-07-2013 - 12:39pm
Hey girlie, the seat right beside me is yours :) I envy you, ya know. You sound really solid and strong. You did the hard work and now you are reaping the rewards. I admire the heck out of you. Nice to have you here in Vet-ville :) love Rain
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Registered: 06-24-2011
Mon, 01-07-2013 - 12:40pm
Hey girlie, the seat right beside me is yours :) I envy you, ya know. You sound really solid and strong. You did the hard work and now you are reaping the rewards. I admire the heck out of you. Nice to have you here in Vet-ville :) love Rain
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Registered: 03-08-2011
Mon, 01-07-2013 - 12:52pm
So fabulous WGO! I am looking out at a beautiful sunshiny day and lots of bright snow and the air feels new - a good day to mark your achievement - congrats!! Daisy
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Registered: 04-23-2010
Mon, 01-07-2013 - 3:53pm

Welcome to Vetville. You are a welcome addition and congratulations.

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

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Registered: 01-20-2010
Mon, 01-07-2013 - 4:33pm
Congratulations, WGO! You've earned it. MPV
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Registered: 11-26-2009
Tue, 01-08-2013 - 3:44am
Hi All Thanks so much :-) What a year its been! This time last year was a very painful time, and it was impossible to imagine that I would be here and feeling this strong and happy :-) Yestersday the 7th Jan, I had an meeting with my sons school - and we have made the decision that he will be repeating his first year at school. So I had to go home, and tell my son the news. He is has been the biggest victim of my A, and it was a heart breaking message to give him since I feel so dam guilty about it! He cried, and was very upset, but because I have worked so hard on our relationship, I was able to comfort him, and I was able to turn a negetive into a positive, and in the end my son seemed actually pleased - even releived to be given a second chance! I finally feel like I am making right decisions, I feel involved in my life, I think about the problems I am facing, and not pushing them way and not dealing with them. Whenever I find myself thinking about my xap - I know its because I am using my excape mechanism/bad coping mechanism - its like a warning sign - when this happens, I ask myself what is it I am trying to avoid in my real life..... and low an behold, there is always something niggling and its nothing to do with xAP - so for me it really works... Thank you all for you endless support, your all so amazing. Love WGO
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Registered: 05-08-2012
Tue, 01-08-2013 - 9:23am

(((WGO)))

Huge Congratulations to You! I am so pleased for you and no-one deserves it more. I hope you are proud of yourself. Your hard work, determination and ability to see right through the fog is what has got you here. I know you will continue to work hard and that this year allows you to find the happiness that you truly deserve, whatever that will be. You are an amazing asset to the boards WGO, you say it as it is, with empathy and compassion. And as I have said to you before, it is largely down to your no nonsense approach that has me 8 mths NC today! You were already a vet in my eyes, but now you are official! Are we allowed to have a "favourite" vet? if so, your it!!

Much Love and Congratulations

Sunny Soon Xxx