Whatzzup?

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Registered: 11-04-2012
Whatzzup?
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Fri, 02-22-2013 - 12:34pm

I still check the Board every day.

I'm wondering if anyone is checking in too.

Is there anything you want or need to talk about?  Let us know how you are doing...good, bad or indifferent.

Clarity

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Fri, 02-22-2013 - 1:29pm

HI Clarity - I too check the board as often as possible, and it does seem to be a bit more user-friendly of late. Runboard is easy too but the limitation of characters on PMs gets a bit annoying. 

So anyway, whazzup...well, I up! 10 months NC today! I just squeezed through a rough patch where I was actually on a committee to determine whether or not xAp would be inducted into our school's hall of fame (sports) which would have meant a sighting in two months, at the place where the A began. i was alternately anxious and hopeful, I have to admit. it turned out that other teams were voted in first so his will go back in the pool until next year, and the year after...that said, I have reconnected with DH in a number of ways and am a happier girl most days. There are still triggers, OPMs (oh poor me's), and desperate moments but for the most part I am moving forward, and trying to find the explanation, or let it find me.

Any newbies out there? You are needed!


XOs - Daisy

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Sat, 02-23-2013 - 10:18am

Mornin' Daisy :)

Happy to hear you have reconnect with your H and that you are a happy girl most days and that you can squeeze yourself through a rough patch. 

OPMs...I like that!  That should be added to our list of abbreviations thread :)

I hear you about the limitation in characters when messaging...that is not user friendly...more user annoying, but everyone seems to have migrated there and newbies are joining in.

Thanks for checking in every so often so we can catch newbies when they land here.

((hugs))

Clarity

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Ending an Affair Support Board

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Registered: 01-11-2013
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Sun, 02-24-2013 - 8:07pm
Hi! I was checking in to see if anything new was going on here. I'm doing fine most days. I wish I could stop thinking about my exAP totally, but it's better than it used to be. Now, it's just occasional thoughts, but I wish they would go away entirely. Time has helped and will continue I know, it's not fast enough for me. But, life is good!
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Mon, 02-25-2013 - 11:52am

Thank you, too, Tam, for checking the Board.  I'd hate for any newbie to come here in need of support and there be no one around to lend some.

I'm glad you feel that life is good!  And thinking of him will fade over time...as RBM says 'give time time'.  I remember one of our Vets saying something to the effect that thoughts of JAM still come, but just float by and no longer take hold of her heart in a vicegrip sorta way...just float by and out.  We never really totally stop thinking of anyone who has come and gone in our lives anyway, do we?  Thoughts of them come and then go.

Thanks for chiming, and checking, in :)

((hugs))

Clarity

Community Leader,

Ending an Affair Support Board