when

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Registered: 03-27-2003
when
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 6:42pm
When does it get easy to just walk away and never look back? FOUR YEARS I have put into this MM...and its been on again/off again..but there were times I'd walk away and be strong for sometimes months. I did a good job of it..though at times my subconcious held on to him. I'd dream about him once a week, no matter how long no contact went on, at times. I seem to be doing worse now than I have in the past with this. WHEN DOES THIS STOP TAKING over my brain??? It's like Groundhog Day.. over and over this happens. I need daily intervention of some sort.
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Registered: 03-13-2004
In reply to: lealavendar
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 7:38pm

lea,

u said u can go on for months , that is good, are u married ?, have kids ? can u focus on them instead of MM

i dont know ur story so im just guessing, i know it is very hard not to remember the other person but it can be done

at least i dont dream of OW anymore but i still see her at work every f*****g day (sorry)

im very frustrated

max

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Registered: 04-04-2005
In reply to: lealavendar
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 8:03pm

Lea

It "BEGINS" to change when you really decide deep down in your heart to let go to accept that it really is never going anywere ever and the time has come to move on with out him, but even with all of this it still takes time.