When do the fishing stop?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2010
When do the fishing stop?
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Thu, 03-04-2010 - 1:57pm

After how many days / months of NC / LC do the fishing attempts stop?


I was so surprised yesterday. I am 2 months out of the EA. He pulled away. Then after a lot of whining, texting, IMing in my part, I started LC/NC (we work together). He sent a few emails, texts etc which I

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2009
Thu, 03-04-2010 - 2:10pm

I am in LC/NC myself and I was the one always ending it (yes, many times) - he would always start fishing - if not immediately, then in a couple weeks. When you work together, you can never let your guard down.

XOXO
Gone

**Bloodied but unbowed**
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
Thu, 03-04-2010 - 2:16pm
They don't and if you want it to end; then you have to try to prevent them from fishing. I have struggled with ending my A for 3 years; in October I went NC; blocking his number; he found away around; we started communicating; because I ANSWERED. If he fishes don't let him hook you back. Ignore it; Delete it; and take a deep breath. I so wish I would have listened to my own advice YEARS AGO.