When is he gonna stop contact?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-07-2004
When is he gonna stop contact?
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Mon, 11-15-2004 - 10:27am
Hi All,

I've been doing quite good getting over the A.

I have stopped the obsession, the addiction. NC is the savior to those things.

For those of you out there that have been through this, how long is it going to take him to stop with the EM? We work together so I cannot block it (at least I don't think I can - does anyone know with Outlook?)

He asked me several weeks or maybe months ago if he should stop making conversations with me and I said yes. He still em's me. Usually it's once a week. Last week it was twice, and then I got one again this morning. I haven't answered any of them.

Do I need to ask him again to stop this? Why is he doing this? He went through all the normal stuff in the beginning - why can't we just be friends - etc. He pissed me off by not letting me 'in' and now I don't care anymore.

We ran into each other 2 weeks ago and I did send him a note about why I am being so distant. He said he didn't say hi cuz he was repecting my wish for no conversations.

But why does he keep em'ing? Is it just a mind game that he knows I will cave into sooner or later? (There is no way I would ever go back to the A).

I can keep deleting them, but how long is it gonna take?

Thanks!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2004
Mon, 11-15-2004 - 2:33pm

Go to the Actions tab, click on junk email, add user to blocked user list.


*hugs*


Someday

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Mon, 11-15-2004 - 10:33pm
OR Open one of his e-mails click on message then click on block sender> your done.

He will not quit as long as he thinks he is getting any encouragement from you such as that NOTE.

JMHO

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