It never posted!
If you're referring to your post Brutal Honesty, it did post here. (If that's not the post you mean, let me know and I'll investigate further.) It seems that sometimes there's a slight time lag between posting and the message showing up on the board. I've had it happen to me a few times today, too and have reported the issue. I apologize for the inconvenience but really appreciate you taking the time to bring it to our attention.
It's still here...I see it. ivillage has a host of new problems and some old problems have reared their ugly heads.