It never posted!
If you're referring to your post Brutal Honesty, it did post here. (If that's not the post you mean, let me know and I'll investigate further.) It seems that sometimes there's a slight time lag between posting and the message showing up on the board. I've had it happen to me a few times today, too and have reported the issue. I apologize for the inconvenience but really appreciate you taking the time to bring it to our attention.
It's still here...I see it. ivillage has a host of new problems and some old problems have reared their ugly heads.
withClarity, Community Leader...EAS
"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do." -Eleanor Roosevelt