Where do I go from here?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2010
Where do I go from here?
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Thu, 07-22-2010 - 3:25pm

I have been reading here for awhile now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Thu, 07-22-2010 - 3:47pm

Welcome

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-31-2009
Thu, 07-22-2010 - 3:52pm

Hi Cici,


Welcome to EAS.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2010
Thu, 07-22-2010 - 4:16pm

Thank you for the welcome.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 07-22-2010 - 5:36pm

Cici,


Welcome to our community. As Enery and CSN have already written, your A was not at all unique. His leaving his W is definitely out of the norm, but his dumping his OW is not. Sorry, but this is not unusual.


<<In a relationship surrounded by so many lies- I thought that between he and I there was always truth.>>


Honey, this is

   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2010
Thu, 07-22-2010 - 6:24pm

Hi Cici,

Welcome to the board. Regardless of how the A ended, if you have accepted that it is over, then you are in the right place here. All of us understand the pain that you are feeling.

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My heart and my head were in a MAJOR war as well. My heart didn't want to believe that it was over, that he had moved on without looking back. My head was more like, "we knew this day would come, be happy that the lies are over, get back to real life already."

Today marks 14 weeks of NC for me. There are still times when I wonder "why" and "how". But as the time passes, it's less and less.

Hang in there, keep reading and posting, that's what has kept me going all this time.

((HUGS)) to you!
-Angel