Welcome to our community. As Enery and CSN have already written, your A was not at all unique. His leaving his W is definitely out of the norm, but his dumping his OW is not. Sorry, but this is not unusual.
<<In a relationship surrounded by so many lies- I thought that between he and I there was always truth.>>
Welcome to the board. Regardless of how the A ended, if you have accepted that it is over, then you are in the right place here. All of us understand the pain that you are feeling.
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My heart and my head were in a MAJOR war as well. My heart didn't want to believe that it was over, that he had moved on without looking back. My head was more like, "we knew this day would come, be happy that the lies are over, get back to real life already."
Today marks 14 weeks of NC for me. There are still times when I wonder "why" and "how". But as the time passes, it's less and less.
Hang in there, keep reading and posting, that's what has kept me going all this time.
Welcome
Hi Cici,
Welcome to EAS.
Thank you for the welcome.
Cici,
Welcome to our community. As Enery and CSN have already written, your A was not at all unique. His leaving his W is definitely out of the norm, but his dumping his OW is not. Sorry, but this is not unusual.
<<In a relationship surrounded by so many lies- I thought that between he and I there was always truth.>>
Honey, this is
~Iddy~
Hi Cici,
Welcome to the board. Regardless of how the A ended, if you have accepted that it is over, then you are in the right place here. All of us understand the pain that you are feeling.
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My heart and my head were in a MAJOR war as well. My heart didn't want to believe that it was over, that he had moved on without looking back. My head was more like, "we knew this day would come, be happy that the lies are over, get back to real life already."
Today marks 14 weeks of NC for me. There are still times when I wonder "why" and "how". But as the time passes, it's less and less.
Hang in there, keep reading and posting, that's what has kept me going all this time.
((HUGS)) to you!
-Angel