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|Wed, 09-12-2012 - 2:22pm|
I'm 29 days NC; I did not respond in any way to an email (at work) from XAP asking if I had a sec and that he "wanted to ask something important of me". I have not heard from him since then. I don't believe that he will try anymore.
And, I 'm sad, mad, etc. And I am coming here today because I am wondering if I was too harsh, too mean, by just blowing him off and not responding to his last email. I know, I know - of course it was what had to be done. But, if someone had treated me that way, I would be angry and feel really bad!
Having thoughts such as "maybe I should've just tried to be his friend."
I know, I know. These are all unproductive thoughts, but still....they are here today. Just wanted to reach out.......