Why?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2005
Why?
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Sat, 03-19-2005 - 2:32pm
Why do I always fall for the married man? The one that you cannot hold onto. The one that isn't there when you truly need for them to be? The one that belongs totally to someone else? What emotional hang up or problem do I have that I just cannot stay away from them?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: kelly_lj
Sat, 03-19-2005 - 5:00pm

Kelly

Maybe because there safe being married "YOU" will neve have to make a commitment to them never have to trust or depend on them !!

An individual councelor could help you come to some solid conclusions about this question.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: kelly_lj
Sun, 03-20-2005 - 1:32pm

Because they're not totally available to you and then you can turn them loose when they fail you once again as have all the other prior men in your life.


It's a repeating pattern that you need to come to grips with on a conscious level in order to break the cycle.


Or keep abusing yourself emotionally by continuing the pattern.


Your choice......