Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
Thank you so much for your post. It is very hard to admit that part of the problem is admitting defeat - not "winning" the prize. I don't want to put any negative energy out there and describe what my grand prize would have been, so we'll leave it at that.
Can I add to your equation?
NC + hard work = eventual indifference + time + more hard work + introspection = happiness
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Hi Alice,
I haven't read the other responses yet - So I apologize if Im redundant.
Here's what leaps out of your post to me:
1) You've got SERIOUS anger that you want to direct at him
Honey, I'm always saying that the time it takes to heal is determinant upon the time and effort one puts into the hard work it'll take to get there.
Clarity -
Thank you so much for your post. It is very hard to admit that part of the problem is admitting defeat - not "winning" the prize. I don't want to put any negative energy out there and describe what my grand prize would have been, so we'll leave it at that.
Can I add to your equation?
NC + hard work = eventual indifference + time + more hard work + introspection = happiness
Bodhi
How about this equation?
Hard Work + support from friends = NC
NC + time + letting go/indifference = Healing
NC + time + healing + forgiveness = Peace
Love it :)
Bodhi
High Five!!!!
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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