Why can't I?

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Why can't I?
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Tue, 10-26-2010 - 6:06pm

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 11:17pm

Hi Alice,

I haven't read the other responses yet - So I apologize if Im redundant.

Here's what leaps out of your post to me:

1) You've got SERIOUS anger that you want to direct at him

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 10-27-2010 - 12:22am

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Wed, 10-27-2010 - 6:45am
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 12:47pm

Honey, I'm always saying that the time it takes to heal is determinant upon the time and effort one puts into the hard work it'll take to get there.


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Registered: 06-17-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 1:12pm

Clarity -

Thank you so much for your post. It is very hard to admit that part of the problem is admitting defeat - not "winning" the prize. I don't want to put any negative energy out there and describe what my grand prize would have been, so we'll leave it at that.

Can I add to your equation?

NC + hard work = eventual indifference + time + more hard work + introspection = happiness

Bodhi

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 1:44pm

How about this equation?

Hard Work + support from friends = NC

NC + time + letting go/indifference = Healing

NC + time + healing + forgiveness = Peace

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 1:45pm

Love it :)

Bodhi

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 1:48pm

High Five!!!!

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 2:05pm
We're on an equation roll! :)

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 2:52pm
High 6! Doesn't sound as cool as high 5 tho...
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida

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