Why do we do this to ourselves???
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Why do we do this to ourselves???
| Thu, 05-13-2004 - 2:11pm |
Why do we all wonder after the affair is over if XMM thinks about us and obsesses about us as much as we do them? Do they think of us when they are with their wives?
We both go back to our normal daily lives, but how long does it take to forget, or do you ever forget?
I think about my XMM all throughout the day, every day. I wonder if he ever thinks about me, if when he drives by our special meeting place, does it bring it all back to him?
I still see him at work, and it is hard. Does he think about what we shared when he looks at me? I know I do.
Will the memories ever go away, especially when you still see that person.
Did he lose all respect for you? Did he ever tell any of his friends about the affair?
Does he wish the affair would start up again, is he waiting on you to ask?
So many unanswered questions.
We both go back to our normal daily lives, but how long does it take to forget, or do you ever forget?
I think about my XMM all throughout the day, every day. I wonder if he ever thinks about me, if when he drives by our special meeting place, does it bring it all back to him?
I still see him at work, and it is hard. Does he think about what we shared when he looks at me? I know I do.
Will the memories ever go away, especially when you still see that person.
Did he lose all respect for you? Did he ever tell any of his friends about the affair?
Does he wish the affair would start up again, is he waiting on you to ask?
So many unanswered questions.

That really makes me feel pathetic.
I would assume that it is safe to say that yes our XMM/OMM still think about us and the times together but guys are not as emotional as women so the probably do not obsess like we tend to.
I do not regret it because I have learned so many things from it but I wonder if I would have gotten involved in the first place had I known all of the emotionall distress that came with it.