Why is it that.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2003
Why is it that.....
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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 1:48pm

the sh$% hits the fan whenever you are trying to recover from a loss of a love?? I mean between work, school and everything else right now I have so much stress in my life and that it only accentuates the need for OW. I think it’s natures way of saying we really do need someone in our lives despite what we may think.

I had packed up all of OW’s things and put them away. Wasn’t sure what to do with them. She contacted me this morning and asked me how we were going to take care of that after I had asked her not to!! Damnit! Like an idiot I met with her, but in a way it was good. I finally got a chance to tell her I love her in person. She knows how I feel, that’s for sure. What we all know is you can’t make someone want to be with you. Sadly, it’s outta my hands. However, I’m resolved to moving on – I’m not waiting around for someone who just lives day to day. Thanks for listening.

BTW – you folks who have to work with xAP’s, I don’t know how you do it!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2004
Fri, 12-10-2004 - 8:22pm

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Man, isn't that the understatement of the year :-) LOL - wish it was as easy to accept it! Good luck LV!!

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I couldn't agree with you more! It was bad enough when xOM & I worked a few miles down the road from each other, but to work in the same office?? NO WAY! To those of you who do, you are much stronger than I am and I salute you! :-)

Diva