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Why it's not real
| Mon, 09-28-2009 - 10:32pm |
We always say that affairs aren't real relationships here at EAS.
| Mon, 09-28-2009 - 10:32pm |
We always say that affairs aren't real relationships here at EAS.
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Ditto to everything in your post energy.
It's only when we have the courage to answers those questions honestly, can we see through the fog.
Here's a little something I struggled with during my 3-5 day visits
NEVER!!!!
Bandk thats hilarious!!! You mean real real REAL! when youre talking no.1s and no.2s. I actually didnt do either in front of my H of 14 years. I think it was "stage fright".
In all seriousness, this post is so on the ball. Its not real until you have been through the dirt together and not just the love and bubbles. Was a good point as it got the grey matter working for me.
SB
E1 --
AWESOME post and dead on!! :)
Great post Energy.
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Great Post!!!!
That's the appeal of an A...
I love this post and have thought about all of those things! OM and I definitely didn't know each other in the way that a husband and wife would know each other.
Maybe it's just semantics but an
Great post, energy :)
I'd like to add:
Do you think a wife and mother has time to keep legs smooth, get a manicure, pedicure, eyebrows waxed, bikini wax, hair perfect, a long, hot bath...all in preparation for a rendevous?
Yes, we make the time to always put our best foot forward...sooo not real.
Clarity
You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present
Hi Energy,
Love your post. It hits home.
I also enjoy reading your replies to posts. Your advice is to the point. Two tumbs up!
I had a similar ahhh haaa the other day when I got into my car after my hubby used it and the gas tank was on E and I was already running late for an appt.
I'm gonna be honest and say that I was not thinking how much of a soul mate my hubby was at that moment. I was thinking about the size of his neck and if by fingers could fit around it!
I started thinking you know you don't usually have these types of situations in an A because you are not living together on a day to day bases.
Oh an my hubby is usually considerate and fills up the tank especially if he knows I have to use it the next day. He had a 14 hour work day the day
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
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