Why it's not real

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Why it's not real
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Mon, 09-28-2009 - 10:32pm

We always say that affairs aren't real relationships here at EAS.

Onward and upward.

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Mon, 09-28-2009 - 10:48pm

Ditto to everything in your post energy.


It's only when we have the courage to answers those questions honestly, can we see through the fog.


Here's a little something I struggled with during my 3-5 day visits

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Registered: 09-28-2009
Mon, 09-28-2009 - 11:35pm

NEVER!!!!

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Mon, 09-28-2009 - 11:46pm
Yes, it's sad. It's sad that we allowed ourselves to get caught up in the affair in the first place. And it's totally unfair to
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Registered: 08-09-2009
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 5:29am

Bandk thats hilarious!!! You mean real real REAL! when youre talking no.1s and no.2s. I actually didnt do either in front of my H of 14 years. I think it was "stage fright".

In all seriousness, this post is so on the ball. Its not real until you have been through the dirt together and not just the love and bubbles. Was a good point as it got the grey matter working for me.

SB

Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
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Registered: 04-17-2009
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 7:15am

E1 --


AWESOME post and dead on!! :)

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 7:41am

Great post Energy.

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 9:19am

Great Post!!!!


That's the appeal of an A...

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Registered: 09-28-2009
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 9:52am

I love this post and have thought about all of those things! OM and I definitely didn't know each other in the way that a husband and wife would know each other.


Maybe it's just semantics but an

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Registered: 07-24-2005
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 11:40am

Great post, energy :)


I'd like to add:


Do you think a wife and mother has time to keep legs smooth, get a manicure, pedicure, eyebrows waxed, bikini wax, hair perfect, a long, hot bath...all in preparation for a rendevous?


Yes, we make the time to always put our best foot forward...sooo not real.


Clarity





You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 12:04pm

Hi Energy,


Love your post. It hits home.


I also enjoy reading your replies to posts. Your advice is to the point. Two tumbs up!


I had a similar ahhh haaa the other day when I got into my car after my hubby used it and the gas tank was on E and I was already running late for an appt.


I'm gonna be honest and say that I was not thinking how much of a soul mate my hubby was at that moment. I was thinking about the size of his neck and if by fingers could fit around it!


I started thinking you know you don't usually have these types of situations in an A because you are not living together on a day to day bases.


Oh an my hubby is usually considerate and fills up the tank especially if he knows I have to use it the next day. He had a 14 hour work day the day

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