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Why not learn from others mistakes???
| Sat, 11-27-2010 - 7:01pm |
Why is it so hard to just accept what others have learned and not make the same mistakes?
| Sat, 11-27-2010 - 7:01pm |
Why is it so hard to just accept what others have learned and not make the same mistakes?
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michelle you too? aw jeez honey that stuff is baaaaad for ya
high in fat (bullsh-t)
low in protein (substance)
never believe what you see in a photograph
so much is staged BS
and get the heck off that site this freakin' minute!
yes! i thought i was strong enough to be CURIOUS & not be a whacked out cracked out basket case. it turns out I was the latter - so I WONTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
BE DOING THAT AGAIN!!!!
Yeah.
Somebody might as well have given me a loaded gun and said - here - shoot yourself in the face - it's gna feel the same as looking.
The good news is- I did see through it - but not until after the crying.
well at least now i know why its been so hard for me dealing with the real life version of my x AP next door in the flesh
it freakin sucks man!
BUT.......
theres a new life waiting for us just around the bend, girls!
yahhhhh I DONT KNOW HOW YOU DEAL WITH THAT!!!!
Hooray!!!!
I dont even think he should be allowed to live in my town anymore. Let alone have ANY social media. :)
Ill shake this - just a funk - NOT GOIN BACK - Ill admit myself in a hospital first.
:)
(just in case0
LOL
First of all, stop telling yourself that your xap pursued you. When we allowed a MM to continue to pursue us we gave up our own power. We willingly allowed ourselves to be a willing participant in breaking up a M. The FB pictures are his real life, you were his fantasy and not a part of that. He is really good at manipulating women who don't know their worth. You, when you allowed a MM to pursue you and his W by convincing her that he is a good H and convincing her to stay by pretending that he wants and loves only her. He is a manipulator and I guarantee you that the same sap he put on you to get you to be involved with a man committed to someone else, he is doing the same thing to his W.
Use your anger to help yourself realize that it is never OK for a MM to come on to you because it only leads to disaster in the end. Use your anger to help you to adjust your own morals and realize that MM didn't put a gun to your head. He simply told you what you wanted to hear and you fell for it because you forgot who was most important = YOU. Start working on yourself and try to dig really deep to find out why you were not repulsed when a MM pursued you; why you allowed yourself to sleep with a man who had another life and kept you a secret telling you only what he thought you wanted to hear. This is the time for you to re-evaluate you and why you entered into the A with a MM. Take him out of the picture and work on you and your values. He is who he is but you can be an honest and moral person who doesn't hurt others to get what she wants.
Hi Is Love Enough
Hang in there.
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