why is she doing this

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Registered: 02-15-2007
why is she doing this
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Wed, 02-24-2010 - 3:49pm
I am not having to much trouble with N/C-L/C with my boss who is my xap. It is this female working there that is giving me trouble. I so try to ignore her. She does not know my boss and I were involved nobody does. She is the type of person who gives great boob shots to the guys is 40 something and still ties he shirt up in a knot in the back for attention. We have not got along since she came 1 1/2 yrs. ago. I have so been going out of my way to include her in work(ordering together) she is the bookeeper. Today she sent me this text.... Hi there I know we are supose to get together, but I am doing some work for (boss) today and maybe we can do it tom. or Friday. I was puzzled have not made any arrangements for her and I to get together this week. Was not sure what to do or why she sent me this. I am usually good judge of character, and know she is very manipulative. But you know guys they like the happy dumb girls so boss thinks I am jealous. So to prove my point I forwarded her text to him....then text him and said we have no plans. He asked why did she do this? I said I don't know why don't you ask the b**ch Hard enough getting over him don't need this sh*t with her
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Registered: 01-23-2010
Wed, 02-24-2010 - 4:20pm

She does not know my boss and I were involved nobody does.


I wouldn't be so sure that she or your other co-workers don't know that you and your boss were having an A.

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Wed, 02-24-2010 - 6:00pm
Thankyou, I need all the encouragement I can get. Like I said the L/C is not a problem with boss. It is just the fact this girl comes on like she has him wrapped around her little finger. maybe she does huh
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Registered: 10-08-2009
Wed, 02-24-2010 - 7:26pm
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Edited 2/25/2010 10:47 am ET by jilly1983
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Wed, 02-24-2010 - 7:35pm

she knows, and she wants you to know she knows, and he is just playing dumb. she wants you to know that either they have something going or will soon...let her have what she seems to think is a prize...

I look at it like this...better her than you??

Hang in there...Hugs, not let em see you sweat...

Luvin

Luvin
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