Why shouldnt I tell his wife???

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
Why shouldnt I tell his wife???
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Mon, 07-05-2004 - 1:26pm
Someone please tell me why i shouldnt tell his wife. he is seeing me and other women. i dont want to hurt her i know this is not her fault and i was stupid for ever getting involved. he told me he loved me and i love him and i acutally believed him. i have just started no contact and i dont know how i am going to deal with it when he calls me or msgs me. i have decided not to discuss any of it with him so i dont have to give him any explanations on why, i know if i get in a discussion with him i will start talking to him daily again. i have tried to have NC twice before and failed. any advice would be helpful.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 9:06pm
I have decided that i will not tell her, ever !!! i will not do anything else to hurt her even though she doesnt even know about the affair. if she found out she would be hurt. he called me today at work and i have no one to screen my calls because no one knows about him so they thought it was just another business call. I just told him i was busy and had to go. the guilt over his family and mine is why i want to end the affair and i dont want to cause anymore pain . but NC is so hard i dont know how long i will be able to do it. i appreciate everyone listening and posting. it has been very helpful.

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