Wife called me

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Registered: 03-03-2005
Wife called me
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Mon, 12-07-2009 - 3:22pm

Wife called me and asked if I was pregnant, he has emailed me earlier and it was ignored, she called, we talked for ten mins....he is going to be so pissed.i did not lie to her but i did not tell her everything. my personal business is mine. i know he will be so mad. and i do not care, the good part is, i am sure he will be so mad that he will leave me alone, hopefully for a while. a long while. hopefully forever. i did not expect her call. but i handled it better than i thought.

i told her i have nothing more with him and that it was not my want or need to have any contact with him and that i never wanted to trade places with her. I never even knew of her. i am sure he will paint me out to be crazy etc...he is a good liar. but as surprising as it was it was helpful for me. i am energized to let it go more so than ever.

i said he needs to leave me alone. i hope he does...please advise me how to deal with this....if at all. i am sad she may be hurt. although it is his fault. in ever knew of her. but at the same time, i am sure this hurts her, although she did say i am not the first. just the first that she thought was pregnant

what a mess....i gotta pull it together and i have to let it go....

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Mon, 12-07-2009 - 6:29pm

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Go scream into a pillow and then punch the feathers out of it. ;-)


Seriously, you deal by doing what you have been doing. NOTHING. Block their # from your home phone, cell phone, and any other lines of communication. Be done with this nightmare once and for all. THIS IS YOUR LIFE, so take the helm and navigate your ship out of those toxic waters.

   ~Iddy~