Will he stop cheating .MArried Man??
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Will he stop cheating .MArried Man??
| Fri, 01-14-2005 - 10:59am |
If a man is married and cheats is it possible he can change in this lifetime? I know I have gotten many wonderful advice here but I just dont know if he derves a chance from me. I am the woman he cheated with and now we will have a son together. So is it possible that I can trust this man or make him change in any way. Im so confused and Im really getting headaches just thinking about if I give him a chance what could happen.Ive seen people change for better so Im thinking can it be possible that he wants to change too. What should I do??He cheated on his wife while she was pregnant and got me pregnant. This is such a difficult situtation??

Mom
Can a person change YES if they address the reasons they do the things they do then they can.
WILL HE : Has he done anything to show that he is changing ???
NO YOU CAN'T TRUST HIM ANY MORE THEN HIS WIFE CAN and thats not at all.
I suggest that you take the steps to protect your childs legal rights and stop with any fantasy that this cheating married man is going to run away with you.
JMHO
Free
Yes, he can change. The odds are really against it if he's not in therapy. Even then, the odds aren't good at all. And it doesn't appear that he's in therapy or even considering changing.
The reason you're sick about this is because your intuition is telling you the truth and you don't want to accept it.
BTW, he didn't get you pregnant. You got yourself pregnant. And that's all right. I'm not throwing stones at you at all. And any baby is cause for celebration. But you need to start owning up to your responsibility as to what happened, because, with a baby on the way into the world, you're going to have to become very responsible, for the sake of the baby and for your sake.
If you have family and friends, you need to turn to them for help to get you through this.
You'll be all right. Just calm down and starting making a life plan without him.