Will I ever be at peace

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Will I ever be at peace
Thu, 05-06-2004 - 11:24am
with this whole situation.......the A, the ending of the A. I want to be over this whole ordeal. I realized that when I D my ex-husband I had ex-MM to focus on, and that helped me get over my D a lot faster. I'm so over my ex-husband, and that feels so good.

I need someone to help me get over ex-MM. Someone to help me focus on a more positive level.

Over the last 2 days, ex-MM and I have had several conversations. At first I thought that was not a good idea. Then after we had said what we had to say, it just let's me know further, that he is not the one for me. BUT!!! I'm by no means over him and the relationship that we had. I am at a place that I'm comfortable with. I've learned so much about me, and what I want in a relationship. Now, just finding that someone to have that relationship with.

Even "if" ex-MM got a D from his W, I don't think we could have a healthy, normal, relationship.