Wow, I am seeing the light!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2003
Wow, I am seeing the light!
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Thu, 03-24-2005 - 10:41am
So I went to a counsolor, I had to, the way MM has been mentally beating me down and it has really helped. It is amazing the way MM has just insulted me and insulted me and I have just sat there and taken it. And over the years it has really hit me hard. But I am seeing HE is the one with the problem. Yes I have a problem for me to even take it for as long as I did, that is a sure sign of problems within myself, and I need to work on those. But the first step I need to take is to eliminate him from my life, it is a little tough since we work in the same industry our paths cross, I can't change my work number, I can not change my work cell number, too many clients have it, but I can not pick up. And I am learning not to even listen to his messages so I am not even tempted to call him. He leaves messages that he is instigating me, trying to piss me off into calling him to defnd my self. I tell you for such a stupid man he is smart he knows EXACTLY how to work me and push my buttons. But I am determined to change that! Wish me luck!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Thu, 03-24-2005 - 10:50pm

How about WISH YOU LIFE instead of luck? It sounds like you have been jolted out of your former way of thinking and really have enough perspective on the abusive relationship with xMM to get out and stay out.....


Congratulations,


cl-nre