WTF? My BIL?
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WTF? My BIL?
| Thu, 08-19-2010 - 12:53pm |
Haven't posted in awhile... mostly b/c I"m just going on living my life and post A stuff... Ups and downs with DH, etc... But nothing to discuss now..
Just need to get this out here...

Thanks.
I agree that boundaries are important and until
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Unfortunately, it sound like her world is already a little messed up. And, as much as I'm SURE you want it to go away and pretend it never happened, it did. What did you say to your BIL when he made the inappropriate comments? If you didn't already, you need to clearly tell BIL that he crossed the line.
Put yourself in your sister's shoes - what would you want her to do if the situation were reversed? Would you want to know? Something to think about.
My thoughts are with you :)
Bodhi
I agree I need to let him know he went over a line and that is that...
First congrats on sticking to LC with your xAP and moving on to deal with post A stuff! Yeah you!
Now for the JackA…ahem I mean BIL!
Next time you talk to him express in your own words that he has disrespected your sister and your M. That you love your sister and your niece/nephew and would never do anything to jeopardize your R with her.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Doing the right thing is seldom easy :) E1 gave you great advice.
Bodhi
Hi B_S,
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~Iddy~