XAP leaves work tomorrow

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theyellowone
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Registered: 04-01-2011
XAP leaves work tomorrow
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 Thu, 01-31-2013 - 12:52pm

and I feel like newbie all over again 

got through his final few weeks with very strict LC but am facing his very public departure tomorrow and struggling with every single feeling you can imagine. Stayed home today and pretty much been a soggy mess. 

Sorry not been about but haven't felt had much to offer and just been getting through. 

Yellow x

"Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves." ~Henry David Thoreau~

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wClarity
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Registered: 11-04-2012
In reply to: theyellowone
Re: XAP leaves work tomorrow
 Thu, 01-31-2013 - 3:39pm

(((yellowone)))

Any chance you can stay home tomorrow too?  You can hang out here no matter how much of a soggy mess you are...talk it out, cry it out, scream it out.

We'll be your collective shoulder...help divvy up the hurt.  

Clarity

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cominginfromtherain
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Registered: 06-24-2011
In reply to: theyellowone
Re: XAP leaves work tomorrow
 Thu, 01-31-2013 - 1:42pm
Sweetling, as Kim says, this is *totally* to be expected. I rememebr the day xAP moved, and I didn't even have to witness it like you do. I think you will feel a whole lot better when he is gone andyou can finally move away from this in a more complete way. It's for the best. But I do know how much it hurts. love you, pudding. Hang in there.
justkim2007
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Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: theyellowone
Re: XAP leaves work tomorrow
 Thu, 01-31-2013 - 1:27pm

Aww, sweetie.

You'll be okay.  It's to be expected that with this transition, there will be feelings that come up.

I'm sorry that you're soggy today - but there are brighter days ahead.  No more LC will be a weight lifted from your shoulders!

Big hugs,

Kim

    

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