Xap sighting H crushed again

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Xap sighting H crushed again
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Thu, 09-30-2010 - 12:04pm

Yesterday I was supposed to have lunch with a friend. She flaked but had she not I wouldn't have been where I ended up for lunch yesterday. It's all her fault! LOL



I ended up going out to lunch with H. Totally unplanned but I knew I needed to stop by the mall to pick up

~Stargirl~
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Registered: 01-23-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 12:14pm
You did a great job in reassuring your DH. That is one of my greatest fears. That me and my DH will run into xap. I think I would have ran out of the restaraunt if I were you but you did great. All we can do is let our DHs know that we love them more than anything and we want to be with them. My XAP was the biggest mistake of my life.
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Registered: 08-10-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 12:18pm

Wow Stargirl.



Garfy


NC since 13 September 2010 and trying to feel great...


Fate d

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 12:23pm

Thank you for your reply. For ONCE I am finally thinking of my H instead of XAP! It feels good but at the same time, my H wouldn't have to go through this if it wasn't for my selfish ways. I'm so glad he is still here with me! I don't think I would've stayed with him if the roles were reversed. I am not that strong.



I hope you never have to endure seeing your XAP especially with your H. It is just awful!



Thanks again,



~Stargirl~
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Registered: 07-02-2008
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 12:30pm

Mom G,



THANK YOU! That's exactly what I was hoping for! To be the bigger people. After doing all the wrong things it finally feels good to have my head on my shoulders and put my H first!



You're right. Xap is arrogant and disrespectful! It reminds me of a time before Dday when H and I were out on the town at a lounge for my birthday. Xap knew I would be there with my H.

~Stargirl~