XAP is threatening a Dday

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2010
XAP is threatening a Dday
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Fri, 01-21-2011 - 2:19am

I had enough of the drama!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 4:50am

Hi LW2010!

I read your post with sadness and anger.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2009
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 8:27am

Hey Sister- I was wondering about you!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 8:31am
You go girl! You are in such an amazing place now! Sending prayers your way!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 8:37am

I am sorry that you allowed him to have access to you and plant his dirty little seed in your mind.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 8:50am

((LW))

Let your strong faith be your guiding light. If your A were to be exposed, just believe that you will be able to deal with whatever happens. I am in the camp that difficult times happen for a reason, and that we are to learn and grow from them. Just stay away from JAM and any further contact. He calls again you just hang up. I personally think he is being an idiot and just trying to get a reaction out of you. Continue on with your life and healing as if you never had this conversation.

Some people are just plain evil, and with God on your side, you will get through this according to his plan. Right now you may be concerned with what that is exactly, but with faith and inner strength, you will be able to handle whatever is thrown at you.

Love and hugs,

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2010
In reply to: libertywisdom2010
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 10:32am
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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 3:52pm

I have a friend whose lover tried that trick.

chaika

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 4:54pm

Thanks for your input, (I think), but if you are having an affair (since you mentioned "lovers" 1 too many times), you do not belong on this board. If you've ended an A or want to...then post away.

Just saying....

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2010
Sun, 01-23-2011 - 11:44pm

Thank you All very much!