XMM is being sneaky
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| Tue, 11-23-2004 - 4:38pm |
Today when I logged into IM, my xMM’s sign-in was visible. I deleted him months ago, even before we officially ended our A, after he informed me that he had deleted MY contact information from all communication outlets – IM, e-mail, phone, etc.
He swore to me the last time we spoke that he would never try to contact me again. By re-adding me to his contact list, he’s making subtle overtures that he would like to chat, or at least see if I’m online.
I use my IM daily to check in with H. I’ve recently discovered that chatting frequently with him through the day helps me get over urge to call xMM whenever it strikes.
I blocked and then re-deleted xMM’s contact info so he can’t even see me when I’m logged in.
Now here’s my dilemma. I feel like a sitting duck, waiting for him to try another route for communicating. I can wait, and worry. Or I can e-mail him and politely ask him not to try this again. I had a terrible weekend, worrying about his birthday and his feelings, etc. Now I’m just pissed off about it and want nothing from him but NC.
Opinions, please.
And, yes, in case you were wondering, I was smugly gratified to know that he still wonders if I’m alive in this world.

Ignore him. He is looking for a reaction and if you email him, then smugness returns to his ballcourt. Nothing talks louder than silent rejection.
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NO CONTACT, any contact from you even nagative will only encourage him to keep trying, as they say let him eat static.
If he does find a way of directly contacting you such as ambushing you in a parking lot or office or how ever, I see little need to be polite, tell him to take a hike and sound like you mean it, many men see politeness in a woman as indesisiveness (read weakness)
JMHO
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