xMM is Driving Me Crazy
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xMM is Driving Me Crazy
| Tue, 11-02-2004 - 10:25am |
When xMM just broke NC & emailed me. The last emails I had sent him, the first was in response to how starting driving again was going & the other was whether he honestly thought we could be "just friends" after all that had transpired. So, he emails back to the first one - kidding me about is the road safe/what he did this weekend/asking how the job search is going. But completely fails to respond to the second, more recent, one. Why? Is this another power trip for him? I would never act this way to a friend or a former coworker or someone I had been intimately involved with.

Don't know your exact situation, but I had a talk with my xOM the other day regarding "Can we be friends"? For him, being friends is too hard - he is afraid that a friendship will lead us right down the same path (since we were friends and then became more). He said that there were many email or phone messages I sent after we broke up that he wanted to reply to, but it was too hard to go back down that road when he was still healing. Selfish bastard, I know :-)
Anyway, your xMM could be doing something similar. It's easy write about 'nothing' but to have to get into 'something' (an email about something more serious or important) may just be too hard for him right now.
Diva
Good luck!
Diva
Way are you bothering to worry about XMM don't you have a marriage to worry about.
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