Y BOARD IS QUIET2!

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Y BOARD IS QUIET2!
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Wed, 09-02-2009 - 4:45pm

Y BOARD IS QUIET2!



  • I fell off the wagon and am afraid to post
  • I am a newbie/tweener and am afraid to post
  • I have moved on and only stop by to read sometimes
  • I am a newbie/tweener and don't have much to offer
  • I would rather read and lurk
  • Some glorify A's and it hurts me to read/post
  • I am single and most in A's are Married
  • I am still in the fog
  • I am to depressed to post
  • I am posting on another board and rarely stop by


You will not be able to change your vote.


CL-Lovely Starr

"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2009
Wed, 09-02-2009 - 6:19pm

Good evening Lovely


Actually it was two votes.One, I'm single and have no one to fall back on

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 09-02-2009 - 7:06pm
Hi awakening,

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2009
Wed, 09-02-2009 - 7:35pm

EP Sweetheart


I got my acronyms wrong. I meant the ending the Affair put me over the edge. Not what you beautiful ladies write. Please forgive me for i know not what i do :( No one should be sorry for expressing their feelings on this board! How else are we going to work thru them?


My xMM is my boss. I dont have a choice. In order to keep the work moving thru the system, i must contact him. In order to move up the ladder, i have to keep him in the loop.


Actually i am proud of what i have accomplished so far. It may not add up to the standards on this board but its the best i have right now. As long as i keep moving towards indifference, i think i will be ok no matter how i get it accomplished. Reading does help me see reality and the man he was. EWWWW!


Thank you for your concern. It means a lot to me. I can feel the ((hugs))!


God blessings to you


Awakening

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 09-02-2009 - 8:51pm
Hey Awakening if nothing else we helped the board not be quiet,

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2009
Wed, 09-02-2009 - 11:38pm
I want to explain my vote- I am still in the fog.... well i still believe in my XAP and everything that was said although i have had NC. I still care so very much but know its not right which is why its ended. It was the only thing i could vote on that seemed to fit for me. I am sad but not depressed, I post on various boards when i feel i have something worthwhile to input, I am single but it doesnt void my opinions and lastly there are some postss i feel compelled to answer to.
I dont know if i am right to give my opinions many situations as i lean toward the view that if you were hurting, then they could be as well and although NC is the best way to go, sporting the view of empathy for the other party as well may come across as an endorsement to try to remain in contact and relapse into old habits. I do not wish to set people back when they are trying to heal so i only give opinion where i know i can fully appreciate and for the person posting their particular issue.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Thu, 09-03-2009 - 12:05pm

Thank you for your post.

CL-Lovely Starr

"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2009
Thu, 09-03-2009 - 8:34pm

Hi Lovely


I appreciate your response and the responsibility you have to the people you love here.