Yet another hurdle to jump...
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Yet another hurdle to jump...
| Wed, 03-02-2011 - 7:11pm |
But H and I are remaining strong through it, difficult as it will be.
| Wed, 03-02-2011 - 7:11pm |
But H and I are remaining strong through it, difficult as it will be.
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Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
I am truly not obsessing over the shame...feeling are fairly raw right now since it has only been one week since D-Day.
My thoughts are with you and I am sending you armfuls of strength and courage to help you through the difficult days ahead. You are better than this, and his actions cannot drag you down to his level. Hold your head high and muster every scrap of grace and dignity that you can find within you. One day "this too will pass."
Hugs and smiles and strength
Kat.
Dear Hearts <3,
I cannot comprehend this hurts been giving you and more on your DH.
Sounds like your xap is out for revenge.
I have been in T for three years and am and will continue to work on me. I know the problem is within me, that is why I have been honest with myself and with H and am strictly NC. I am being good to my H. I know I should have been even better to him years ago and maybe none of this would have happened. But it did, and it does me no good to dwell on the guilt. So, I will not. I will press forward with hope my journey to healing. Long road, but I am not a quitter.
Hearts <3
I haven't posted on this board in a really long time but did a drive by today and read your post. The first thing that I thought of was that by taking the letters and destroying them your H may have committed an illegal act. Take great care here because it appears that your XOM is out to get you and your H. Perhaps if you have an attorney you should consult with him/her just in case you can't contain OM's actions. I sincerely hope that this all goes away but I wouldn't want to bet on it.
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