Alice, those women know that it's you and they are toying with you. That is just too much of a coincidence. When we are having an A we think that no one knows but trust me someone always knows. There are two couple where I work I know that they are having an A. I actually saw one away from work in a coffee shop having a very romantic lunch. She's S and he's M. I feel so sorry for her because she just doesn't know how she is destroying herself.
Continue to do nothing but breathe. I don't think you should respond if xap tries to contact you. STAY OUT OF IT. If the W gets a note, it's between her and her H at this point. You just stay out of it entirely.
Not so sure if the women are toying with you. I think if someone suspected you as the OW, they'd be more direct or ignore you entirely. It's hard to say. Just remain calm. Wishing you the best sweetie. Please keep us posted.
Hey Alice:
Damn!
Alice,
Continue to do nothing but breathe. I don't think you should respond if xap tries to contact you. STAY OUT OF IT. If the W gets a note, it's between her and her H at this point. You just stay out of it entirely.
Not so sure if the women are toying with you. I think if someone suspected you as the OW, they'd be more direct or ignore you entirely. It's hard to say. Just remain calm. Wishing you the best sweetie. Please keep us posted.