You guys "Rock!"

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You guys "Rock!"
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Sun, 02-27-2011 - 9:17am

Reading the board this morning was exhilarating. I was so impressed by some of the stuff I read from last night, I've decided to put it in a thread of it's own. I would like to keep this thread current with your help and input. If you read something in a thread that provides an "Aha" moment for you, please copy and paste it as a reply. Good job, fellow Enders!

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha

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Sun, 02-27-2011 - 9:58am

Oh, I agree!

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Sun, 02-27-2011 - 7:37pm

OMG IDDY!!!!!!

HOW FRESH!!!!!!

IDDY:

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Sun, 02-27-2011 - 9:53pm
Each day i am impressed and learning from each person on EAS, you are all amazing and each persons growth is truly a gift to be part of. I cannot say thank you enough to each person who opens my mind and eyrs to new truths and realities:-)
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Mon, 02-28-2011 - 7:50am

Getting back to why I started this thread. Here follows a comment Alwayst made that I totally agree with.

What's more important than trying to figure out what xAPs agenda was, is to figure out what our agenda was. Why did WE actively step into the role of mistress and adulterer. His motivations should not be Alone's concern. Her motives should be.

Spot on.

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Mon, 02-28-2011 - 9:32am

Vanessa wrote~

My XAP and I both felt we truly loved each other, and no-one in this world could tell us otherwise, but the fact is that was not love, that was addiction, we were truly addicted to one another, because love:

- isn't meant to make you feel less than worthy, it's meant to make you feel extremely worthy
- isn't hurried and restricted, it's spontaneous, unscheduled and timeless
- isn't meant to destroy families, it's meant to create families and bring them together
- isn't giving one another crumbs of your time, it's about being there for one another all day every day.

Absolutely!

((Hugs))

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Mon, 02-28-2011 - 7:55pm

FeelinLousy~

You are right. It is because it was pure fantasy. We created this imaginary super -human man in our head. We could control the "fake" one right? We could take and analize every written word and make it become what WE wanted it to mean. I HIGHLY doubt for a second that he meant half of the things he

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Tue, 03-01-2011 - 5:46am

Wow Iddy!!!

Great idea! Lovn the EAS rock!!!

Iggyx

You are what you consistently do
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Wed, 03-02-2011 - 6:37am

First, I want to say that ANYONE can add to this thread. Anything that you read that resonates with you will resonate with someone else, so please join in and keep this thread current. Seems like I am the only one contributing and I know many of you liked this "You guys Rock" idea, so how about adding to it.

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Wed, 03-02-2011 - 10:43am

Bodhi~

...no matter how you feel right now, no matter how much you hurt and think life is horrible, it's much better than living a lie.

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 6:22am

You are what you consistently do

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